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Even the simplest most common meaning evokes trhe notion of control. Parenting is the administration of children. Not a pleasant thing to do, though it can be enjoyed. For example taking children on holiday when they are bored.

All to often parents like to administer mopre than theoir own children, hence schools, religions and governments. Although being a parent isn't an essential course to undertake to be a controler it is a great mover and sadly parenting for a the best part of a couple of decades leaves it's mark on the parent. Moreso if there is more than one child and parenting goes on for decades, more so for a single parent where it is difficult to get a break.

Ther outcome is that the parent often cannot stop and wants to admisister even once the children have left home. Such a parent is likely to seek groups to join, where admistration is a foregone acceptable mechanism. Joining campaigns, samll tyo beging with, with the possibilty of going up the heirachy and become a named administrator.

Feeding people and generally helping is the most easy to undertake as it seems the admistartion is for anothers well being, as no doubt was the argument withg parenting.