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No doubt each of has half of the genes of a particular parent, which half is occult as is the quality of each chromosome. Still the odds are we may have have the weaknesses that each parent suffers from. They may show physically and be exacerbated by upbringing.

Your upbringing may be tough yet with enough freedom to develop certain strengths which override certain weaknesses, but this while attractive whilst young may require earlier onsets of illness due to the extra work your body has to perform.

It is the mind, following upbringing that will encourage the body to perform.

Others may not have had a challenging upbringing and so will have to develop their mind at a later age, without parental support. This equates to a later stride for freedom and may often encompass drastic measures such as drug taking to find one's own path.

Whereas the changes to the mind may be beneficial spiritually, as the shocking new worlds quickly put the slave mentality on the not to do list, the body however doesn't respond well to this indifference to well being. Not eating well, to many late nights.

So the later person is less well able to deal with stress and may think that more drugs will help them escape the subjugation to the pain or worry. Of course this will only be a bandage to a bleeding heart and it is best to end the procrastination and deal with the wound.